In the latest drama from the reality TV show 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, cast member Tiger Lely Taylor has
found herself at the center of controversy as she defends her husband, Adnan Abdel Fattah. This comes in the wake
of Adnan’s contentious behavior during the show’s tell-all episode, where his remarks drew sharp criticism from co-
stars and viewers alike.
During the tell-all, Tiger Lely challenged the accusations of Adnan’s controlling behavior, insisting that he was not domineering, despite visibly seeking his approval before offering her opinions. “I’m not afraid of Adnan,” she claimed while explaining that her fashion choices were entirely her own. However, her defensiveness raised eyebrows, particularly as the cast confronted Adnan, who dismissed them as “idiot people” and made a controversial claim suggesting that co-star Niles Valentine could be a “sugar daddy” for Matilda Niti, another cast member.
The situation escalated further when a fan reached out during a Q&A session with Tiger Lely, expressing disappointment in Adnan’s behavior, particularly in relation to Niles, who is on the autism spectrum, and Brian Muniz, who uses a wheelchair. Tiger Lely responded by emphasizing her professional background in working with individuals with disabilities, stating, “He didn’t seem on the spectrum to me,” and added that even if Niles was autistic, it didn’t justify “being an a**hole.”
Criticism of Tiger Lely intensified as she continued to defend Adnan, questioning Brian’s credibility by suggesting he was not in a position to offer advice due to his past as a drug dealer, which she implied led to his current circumstances. This prompted backlash from fans who pointed out that Niles had openly discussed his autism on the show, highlighting a disconnect between Tiger Lely’s remarks and the reality presented on screen.
Despite the outcry, Tiger Lely and Adnan reportedly only watch their own segments on the show, leading to questions about her understanding of her co-stars’ struggles and perspectives. Critics noted that Tiger Lely had not directly addressed Niles during their encounters on the show, even as she characterized Adnan’s interactions as bullying.
As previews for upcoming episodes hint at further tension between Adnan and Niles, the dynamics of the show continue to unfold. Fans worry that Adnan’s taunts, including referencing Niles’ autism, could exacerbate the situation. The controversy raises broader concerns about representation and understanding of disabilities within reality television.
Adding to the drama, Tiger Lely has begun selling “Team Adnan” merchandise online, seemingly capitalizing on the confrontation between her husband and Niles. Observers have also noted Adnan’s past comments regarding Brian’s wheelchair, which he associated with a failure to adhere to certain religious tenets, further complicating the narrative of his character on the show.
Ultimately, Tiger Lely’s unwavering defense of Adnan, even at the expense of others’ experiences, invites critical reflection on the nature of their relationship and the messages it sends regarding disability, dominance, and respect. As the season progresses, viewers remain eager to see how these complex interactions will unfold, keeping in mind the sensitive topics that are now part of the larger conversation surrounding 90 Day Fiancé.
