Amanda Wilhelm’s journey from Unice, Louisiana, has been marked by both tragedy and romance. Losing her

husband, Jason Wilhelm, to cancer in 2022 left a void in her life. She sought solace in social media, where she

encountered Ras Choy, a Romanian social media personality. Their connection, ignited by a simple virtual rose,

blossomed into a full-fledged romance, leading her to consider a new chapter.

Her appearance on 90-day fiance before the 90 days season 6 revealed the complexities of her relationship with Ras. While her loved ones worried about the speed of her new relationship, Amanda envisioned a future with Ras, even planning to meet him in person and return to the US engaged. However, the relationship was fraught with challenges, including Ras’s online flirtations and their differing views on family planning.

Despite their emotional connection, in-person chemistry was a struggle, and guilt over leaving her children behind mounted. Tensions increased when Ras secretly applied for a US Visa. By the season finale, they were still together, hoping for a future.

However, the tell-all episode revealed that Amanda and Ras had already parted ways. Ras focused on his influencer career while Amanda was engaging with another TikToker, which Ras disapproved of. They never reconciled, and Ras later expressed the possibility of reconnecting after his visa was approved, but Amanda wasn’t interested.

In February 2024, Amanda’s life took a surprising turn as she became romantically linked to fellow 90-day fiance alum Scott Worn. Amid Scott’s financial struggles, he moved into Amanda’s basement, and the pair even went as far as posting their first photo together to capitalize on the buzz.

However, it turned out they were not a couple. By March 2024, Amanda made her relationship with a new man, Joel, Instagram official. Though details remained private, flirtatious exchanges had appeared on Joel’s Instagram.

By June 2024, Amanda and Joel were engaged, as revealed by a video showing Joel proposing at a restaurant. Amanda proudly announced her engagement on Instagram. This was a romantic proposal.

In addition to her romantic endeavors, Amanda has also ventured into the world of social media and podcasting. She co-hosts the “Truly Chaotic” podcast and has also opened up about her past as a Hooters girl. While her future on the 90-day fiance franchise remains uncertain, her engagement to Joel suggests a new chapter in her life, and their upcoming wedding plans are being shared with her audience.