“90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days” Season Four featured eight couples, but by 2025, only one remained together.
The season premiered on February 23, 2020, shortly before the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic, and included some
iconic cast members who captivated audiences with their antics. Big Ed Brown, then 56 years old from San Diego,
was introduced alongside Rosemarie Vega, a single mother from the Philippines. Jeffrey Pasel, a single father of three, traveled to Russia to meet his online girlfriend, Varya Molina, in hopes of formalizing their online relationship. David Murphy, a software engineer from Las Vegas, shocked many fans by revealing he had been in a seven-year-long relationship with his girlfriend, Lana from Ukraine, despite never having spoken on the phone or had a video chat. They dated for years without meeting in person. Many, including David’s family, suspected Lana might not be real or that he was being deceived, but those doubts were dispelled when she finally met David in Ukraine, and the couple got engaged toward the season’s end.
Jeffrey Pasel and Varya Molina’s relationship took a troubling turn when Jeffrey ended up behind bars. After moving to the United States from Russia through a green card lottery, Varya was saddened but remained committed, believing he might be released before serving his 18-year sentence. In the meantime, she traveled to different countries and celebrated her 36th birthday with her mother in Turkey. Big Ed Brown and Rosemarie Vega’s relationship ended during the season due to Big Ed’s repeated insults, leaving him heartbroken. He quickly returned to the franchise with Liz Woods, a single mother, but that relationship also failed when he called off their wedding just weeks before the event. Big Ed is reportedly single now and focused on his career as a real estate agent in Arkansas, while Rose continues to advance her career as a social media influencer.
Usman Umar and Lisa Ham appeared genuinely in love during the season but faced challenges after marrying in Nigeria. Their relationship ended due to Lisa’s controlling behavior and cultural differences, leading Usman to file for divorce. He later moved on with Kim Menz, while Lisa married a man named Tracy Robinson in April 2021. Usman and Kim were featured in two seasons of different spin-offs but eventually separated because Kim felt Usman did not respect her or make her feel secure about her appearance.
Avery Warner and Ash Naeck were another attractive couple whose relationship faced trust issues and long-distance struggles. Despite ending the season on a positive note, they ultimately broke up. Avery remains single while focusing on raising her daughter, Silver, and hosting her podcast. Following his breakup with Avery, Ash began dating Tina Sardellis, a healing and wellness coach, and they now have a daughter together who recently turned one year old. Ash is now a father of two, having another son from a previous relationship.
Darcy Silva was one of the most iconic cast members of the season, but her relationship with Tom Brooks ended unhappily. Initially displaying chemistry, Tom gradually pulled away, leading to their breakup. Tom married a businesswoman named Mariah Fineman in Las Vegas in October 2024, and the couple is still together. Meanwhile, Darcy married Jorgie Rusev in November 2023, but recent rumors suggest they are no longer together.
Erica Owens and Stephanie Matto, although appearing happy together, ultimately broke up due to a lack of physical affection and Stephanie’s anger issues. Both women have since dated other people but currently appear to be single. Interestingly, Stephanie seems to have shifted her dating preferences, as her recent partners have all been male. Despite both Erica and Stephanie seemingly being single, a reconciliation appears unlikely.