The reality television franchise “90 Day Fiancé” has introduced viewers to a myriad of couples, some of whom have

captured hearts, while others have sparked intense controversy. Among these contentious pairs are Lauren Allen and

Faith Gatok Tulad, featured in “90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days” Season 7. In my opinion, Lauren and Faith

should never reconcile, and here’s why their relationship is emblematic of a troubling dynamic that raises red flags.

A Disastrous Beginnings

Lauren, hailing from Las Vegas, and Faith, from the Philippines, met via a dating app and soon decided to take their connection to the next level with an in-person meeting. However, Lauren’s intentions remained undisclosed throughout his visit, leading Faith to navigate a complex emotional landscape. As someone who had not had a boyfriend in three decades, Faith viewed Lauren as her potential path to a better life in the U.S., making her vulnerable to manipulation.

Manipulation and Infidelity

One of the most painful aspects of their relationship was Lauren’s admission of infidelity. He expressed an interest in polygamy, which complicated the already fraught communication between them, especially given the language barrier. When Lauren confessed to cheating, Faith likely struggled to fully understand the implications of his words. The core issue was not just Lauren’s interest in multiple partners; it was the way he exploited Faith’s limited grasp of English to control the narrative.

Despite his dishonesty, Lauren had the audacity to propose to Faith, a moment that momentarily earned her respect from fans when she initially declined. However, Faith eventually accepted the proposal, highlighting the troubling dynamics at play in their relationship.

Financial Insecurity and Manipulative Intentions

Lauren’s financial instability added another layer of complexity to their relationship. Revealing that he was broke and living on couches in Las Vegas, Lauren seemed to have no viable plan for employment in the Philippines. This raised questions about his true intentions—was he looking to establish a life with Faith, or was he merely seeking financial security through her?

Furthermore, Lauren’s troubled past as a parent casts a shadow over his character. He has a history of neglecting his financial obligations, allegedly abandoning his ex-wife Cheyenne and their children shortly after their divorce. Rather than exhibiting remorse, Lauren appeared to revel in his time in the Philippines, giving off an impression of selfishness in the face of family responsibilities.

A Troubling Romantic History

Lauren’s romantic history is equally concerning. He has consistently emphasized his attraction to trans women without addressing his previous relationships with cisgender women, which raises questions about his honesty with Faith. It’s unclear whether he ever shared his past relationship with Esther, a woman who seemed to support him throughout his journey but ultimately was left feeling used and manipulated.

Adding to the drama, Lauren initially contacted another woman, whom he thought was a “ladyboy,” only to be scammed. In a seemingly predatory move, he then chose to pursue Faith, fully aware of her vulnerabilities. The repercussions of these choices haunt the couple, particularly in light of Lauren’s actions after their breakup.

The Aftermath of their Relationship

After his split with Faith, Lauren married a trans woman named Carlos just two weeks later—a hasty decision that raises eyebrows regarding his genuine feelings for Faith. This marriage lasted only a year, further exemplifying Lauren’s inconsistent and perhaps opportunistic nature in his romantic relationships.

By the time of the reunion filming in October 2024, Lauren and Faith had reunited, despite the tumultuous events of their past. It suggests that Faith may have sacrificed her self-esteem to remain with a man who has shown little regard for her feelings, her well-being, and her aspirations for a better life in America.

Conclusion: A Cautionary Tale

The relationship between Lauren Allen and Faith Gatok Tulad serves as a cautionary tale within the “90 Day Fiancé” franchise. Their complicated history and Lauren’s manipulative behaviors present a concerning narrative that underscores the need for healthy communication, mutual respect, and emotional honesty in any relationship. Fans of the show are left questioning whether Faith is truly committed to her own happiness, or if she’s compromising too much in her quest for love and acceptance in the U.S.