Tiger Lily Taylor, a star from “90-Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days,” deserves to recognize her worth and move on
from her relationship with Adnan Abdul Fata. Many viewers believe she could benefit greatly by leaving what
appears to be a controlling and immature partnership. After a challenging divorce, Tiger Lily met Adnan on
Instagram. Her previous marriage was characterized more by obligation—following an unexpected pregnancy—than love. Although her ex-husband provided her with material wealth, the relationship felt more like a gilded cage, trapping her in an existence devoid of personal freedom.
When Adnan entered her life, he likely promised her a fresh start and a new reality. However, it appears that Tiger Lily misunderstood these intentions, as his aim seemed to involve changing her entirely. Over time, Tiger Lily has undergone a noticeable transformation, dressing more conservatively, wrapping her hair, and avoiding makeup. This shift may not be merely a response to feeling self-conscious after having a baby, as she suggested during the reunion. Instead, it seems that her appearance is now more about adhering to someone else’s expectations rather than her own self-expression.
Adnan has been open about his motivations for marrying Tiger Lily, admitting in a Q&A session on Instagram that one of his reasons might have been to gain entry into America. In response to a fan’s question about whether he was with her for a green card or a genuine future, he humorously suggested that he married Tiger Lily for the latter and to have a baby with her. While his reply came across as jest, it raises serious questions about his true intentions regarding the relationship. Many fans have speculated about this revelation, with some, like Instagram user Clare Lis Corbett, suggesting that financial motivations could also be involved.
From the moment Tiger Lily arrived in Jordan, Adnan began to exert control over her wardrobe. He insisted that she appear presentable for their marriage ceremony and disapproved of her outfits if they revealed too much skin, leading to emotional comparisons between Adnan and her ex-husband, both of whom displayed controlling behaviors. While her previous partner might not have scrutinized her wardrobe to the same degree, his stifling influence was evident.
During the “90-Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days” tell-all, Tiger Lily’s co-stars noticed that she seemed anxious and often looked to Adnan for approval before speaking. Although Tiger Lily denied being scared, claiming to be more introverted compared to her talkative partner, her hesitance to engage in dialogue left many viewers questioning whether Adnan had instructed her to remain silent. Over time, it appears she has become increasingly submissive to his dominant presence, despite being two decades his senior and possibly even acting as his sugar mama, complying with his every dictate. This dynamic suggests that it may be time for Tiger Lily to reassess her relationship and recognize her own worth.