Tiger Lily Taylor, known for her tumultuous relationship with Adnan Abdul Fata on the reality series 90 Day Fiancé:

Before the 90 Days, is making headlines once again, this time with a bold message directed at women. Her

seemingly outdated perspective has left fans and co-stars questioning her views on femininity and submission.

During her travels overseas to meet Adnan, Tiger Lily found herself deeply affected by the cultural expectations placed upon her. She was taken aback by the need to drastically alter her lifestyle and appearance, which included avoiding provocative clothing and being mindful of how she was perceived by other men. Tiger Lily also learned that societal norms dictated that men—even her doctor—were not permitted to touch her. This stark contrast to Adnan’s seemingly few restrictions prompted her to re-evaluate her own situation.

The couple welcomed their first child shortly after Tiger Lily discovered she was pregnant. Adnan was able to join her in the United States for the birth, and they appeared together at the Season 7 tell-all, making them the only couple from the season to do so while others remained separated or were still in the process of obtaining green cards and visas. Observers noted that Tiger Lily often glanced at Adnan before answering questions, suggesting a shift in her dynamic since their marriage.

Recently, Tiger Lily took to social media to share her thoughts on how women should conduct themselves, suggesting that feminine women should only speak when spoken to and avoid interrupting others. While many agreed that it is generally impolite to interrupt, critics were quick to label her advice as outdated.

On Reddit, discussions ensued, with one user commenting, “Men definitely control her, but don’t tell her that she may need some lessons.” Other fans of 90 Day Fiancé expressed that Tiger Lily seemed misinformed about what it truly means to be feminine, with several pointing out that she appeared to conflate femininity with submission. One fan stated, “Imagine being a 40-year-old woman marrying someone half your age and then shrinking yourself down to be submissive to this idiot who knows nothing about the actual world.”

Another commenter added, “Who’s going to tell her she doesn’t know what feminine means? I think she’s confusing feminine with submissive; the actual definition of feminine includes characteristics traditionally associated with women.”

Reaction was mixed as fans weighed in on whether they were shocked by her life lessons or if they could see how her perspective has shifted since her marriage to Adnan.

As the conversation around Tiger Lily’s advice continues, it raises broader questions about cultural differences and the expectations women face, particularly in cross-cultural relationships. For those interested in following her journey, 90 Day Fiancé airs Sundays on TLC.